It feels counterintuitive to suggest that straight black men as a whole possess any sort of privilege—particularly the type of privilege created for and protected by whiteness. In America, we are near or at the bottom in every relevant metric determining quality of life. Our arrest and incarceration rates, our likelihood of dying a violent death, our likelihood of graduating high school and attending college, our employment rates, our average net worth, our likelihood of surviving past 70—I could continue, but the point is clear. But assessing our privilege or lack thereof on these facts considers only our relationship with whiteness and with America. We are the ones who get the biggest seat at the table and the biggest piece of chicken at the table despite making the smallest contribution to the meal. And nowhere is this more evident than when considering the collective danger we pose to black women and our collective lack of willingness to accept and make amends for that truth.
Mom (Black and White)
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The handkerchief code also known as the hanky code , the bandana code , and flagging  is a system of color-coded cloth handkerchief or bandanas for non-verbally communicating one's interests in sexual activities and fetishes. The color of the handkerchief identifies a particular activity, and the pocket it is worn in left or right identifies the wearer's preferred role in that activity. For example, a dark blue handkerchief indicates an interest in anal sex , and wearing it in the left pocket indicates a preference for being the insertive partner. The wearing of colored bandanas around the neck as a practical accessory was common in the mid- and late-nineteenth century among cowboys , steam railroad engineers , and miners in the Western United States. It is thought that the wearing of bandanas by gay men originated in San Francisco after the Gold Rush , when, because of a shortage of women, men dancing with each other in square dances developed a code wherein the man wearing the blue bandana took the male part in the square dance, and the man wearing the red bandana took the female part these bandanas were usually worn around the arm or hanging from the belt or in the back pocket of one's jeans. The modern hanky code is often reported to have started in New York City around , when a journalist for the Village Voice joked that instead of simply wearing at set of keys on one side or the other then a common code to indicate whether someone was a "top" or a "bottom" , it would be more efficient to subtly announce their particular sexual focus by wearing different colored handkerchiefs.
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You know who you are, honey. Of course, we have to begin the list with a man who is very much in the news these days after he came out as a gay man. Yusaf Mack. The professional boxer admitted that he is also into guys after he was caught performing in an adult movie with two other dudes. The year-old father of ten kids has a winning record as a pro; in a total of 41 boxing matches, he recorded 31 wins 17 by knockouts , 8 losses, and 2 draws.
I squandered my 20s by not having enough sex. If I were rating my sex life in that decade through emoji, I behaved like the yellow one with his eyes closed and a straight line where a smile should be. I should have acted more like a cross between the eggplant and the one no one I know uses to signify raindrops.